A trip to Cork’s museum turns into a moving tribute to chosen family, lost friends, queer history, and the enduring fight to protect love.
To Cork we went, three gay men bound By friendship, love, and years; to see the rainbow flag preserved, and honour hopes and fears. My husband walked beside me there, our older friend as well; the family that gay men found when other shelters fell. We wandered through the city's streets, past river, bridge, and quay; and many handsome lads passed by as bright and glad as May. A knowing glance, a fleeting smile, was shared from eye to eye; some grinned to see us looking back, and we smiled in reply. Within the museum's quiet halls our history was told; not hidden now in whispered words, but written clear and bold. Gay liberation claimed its space, its banners proudly raised; and stories once forbidden speech stood openly displayed. The years of HIV were there, the names, the loss, the fight; the friends who taught us how to live by showing how to die. And marriage too had found a home among those gallery walls; the simple right to love made safe, no longer feared or small. We stood and wept before these things, for we had lived them all; the rise of hope, the plague of grief, the long climb from the fall. The young walk freely hand in hand, their future bright and wide; yet shadows gather even now where prejudice may hide. For every gain can be undone if memory fades away; the rights secured by yesterday still need our care today. So Cork remains within my heart, its flag, its streets, its friends; and family of choice still proves the love that never ends.
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